BOBBY-JAYNE , 24 FROM BOW AND MUM TO ANNA

Bobby-Jayne lives in Bow, London with her 2 month-old daughter Anna. Before she became a mum Bobby-Jayne was studying beauty therapy at college. She plans to return to her studies in a few months, when Anna is older.

Please explain why you’ve chosen to breastfeed?
I chose to breastfeed because I knew it was the best possible start for my baby.  I always knew that I would breastfeed, even before I was pregnant.  And once I was pregnant, I really liked the idea of burning off all of that baby weight!

What did the people around you think of your decision to breastfeed - eg partner, parents, friends, family?
My parents are really proud. I think my friends were quite shocked—they were like “Really? You’re breastfeeding?” My partner was pleased that I was doing the best for the baby.

What general advice would you give to expectant mums considering breastfeeding?
It’s normal to feel worried about the unknown. I would say, go for it. If things go wrong, there is lots of help available and it gets much easier once mum and baby get the hang of it!

What advice would you give to mums whose partner/friends/parents disapprove of breastfeeding?
I don’t want to say on the blog what I’d really say, because it would be too rude! I think the decision is entirely for the individual who’s given birth to the baby. Mums need to go by what feels right for them, not what other people say.

Did you speak to anyone for advice, or do any research about feeding your baby?
Everyone I spoke to – doctors, midwives, health visitors – all advised me that breastfeeding is the best possible start for my baby.  My sister breastfed her four children and that really inspired me.