CHARISSA COOKE, 25 FROM SWINTON AND MUM TO MALACHI

Charissa lives in Swinton with her 1 year-old son Malachi. Before she became a mum Charissa was heavily involved in charity work, coordinating Christian Music events and working for African charity ‘Ekco’. Since having Malachi, Charissa has returned to work part time as a performer, touring the UK with her baby.

Please explain why you’ve chosen to breastfeed?
I’ve always wanted to breastfeed because I know that it’s best for my baby and the most natural thing in the world. It’s also cheap, convenient, it helps me to have a close bond with my baby and can help you to lose weight after the birth.

What did the people around you think of your decision to breastfeed - eg partner, parents, friends, family?
My husband really supported my choice to breastfeed as did my family and friends. I know I couldn’t have carried on without their support.

What general advice would you give to expectant mums considering breastfeeding?
Breastfeeding is a really rewarding and nourishing way to feed your baby. It can take a while for you and your baby to learn how to do it well, but after you’ve got through the tiredness of the first 6 weeks you’ll find it gets much easier and becomes one of the most enjoyable times you spend with your baby. And remember, if you do struggle, get support, there’s loads out there to help you!

What advice would you give to mums whose partner/friends/parents disapprove of breastfeeding?
The most important thing to bear in mind is that as a mother, you need to do what’s best for your baby and what works for you. Your baby has to come first, not everyone else—and ultimately, it’s your decision to make, not theirs. As for all the people that disapprove, there’ll be more out there that do approve and will encourage you, but you need to seek them out at groups, and through breastfeeding mentors.